Is Your Relationship with Food or Your Body Unhealthy? Signs Men Shouldn't Ignore.
Introduction
For too long, body image concerns and disordered eating have been stereotyped as “women’s issues.” However, research shows that men are equally vulnerable to these struggles but often go unnoticed or untreated.
Why Men Often Overlook These Issues
Societal expectations to appear strong and avoid vulnerability often make it harder for men to acknowledge body image concerns. Despite this, studies reveal that body dissatisfaction and eating disorders are common among men and boys, highlighting the need for greater awareness and support.
Ignoring the signs can impact negatively impact your mental health, physical health, and overall well-being.
Signs You May Be Struggling with Body Image or Disordered Eating
Preoccupation With Weight, Size, or Shape
Spending significant time measuring, weighing, or criticizing your body.
Comparing your physique to others or obsessing over achieving a specific “look” (e.g., muscular or lean).
Constantly checking your reflection or taking “progress photos.”
Feeling dissatisfied even after achieving fitness or weight goals.
Restrictive Eating or Unhealthy Exercise Patterns
Skipping meals, cutting out entire food groups, or avoiding social situations that involve eating.
Rigidly tracking calories, macros, or portion sizes without flexibility.
Exercising excessively to “earn” food or “burn off” calories.
Avoiding rest days out of fear of losing progress.
Feeling anxious when deviating from a strict diet or exercise routine.
Emotional Distress Around Food or Appearance
Feeling guilt or shame after eating certain foods.
Anxiety about how others perceive your body.
Turning to food for emotional comfort, followed by feelings of regret.
Hiding or lying about eating habits out of embarrassment.
Use of Supplements or Extreme Diets
Reliance on protein powders, supplements, or diet pills without medical guidance.
Jumping from one “fad diet” or restrictive eating plan to another.
Using anabolic steroids or performance-enhancing substances to achieve a particular body type.
Changes in Mood and Daily Functioning
Fatigue, irritability, or difficulty focusing due to under-eating or over-exercising.
Withdrawal from friends or activities you once enjoyed.
Low motivation or feelings of hopelessness tied to dissatisfaction with your appearance.
Increased stress or frustration when your body doesn’t “measure up” to self-imposed expectations.
How Therapy Can Help
Addressing these concerns in therapy can help you:
Challenge harmful beliefs about body image, masculinity, and self-worth.
Build a healthier relationship with food, exercise, and their body.
Develop tools to manage stress, self-criticism, and perfectionism.
Recognize underlying emotional triggers that fuel disordered eating or body dissatisfaction.
Embrace balance and flexibility, letting go of rigid patterns that no longer serve you.
You Deserve to Feel Better
Seeking help is not a sign of weakness—it’s an act of courage and self-respect. If you see yourself in any of these signs, I’m here to help.
